Long-distance relationships can be extremely difficult. It is not only difficult, because you can not see or talk to your partner as often as usual, but almost everyone you meet is a horror story about how a long distance relationship have failed for them. I once read that love removes large and small increases. Keep this in mind if you go through a difficult period. If you have not yet engaged in a long distance relationship and are considering, know that there is a big commitment. Make sure you really like the other person, and it is worthwhile for you to make some sacrifices. Here are some guidelines to make it work.
1. Be honest about what you expect of them. You want the freedom to date other people? Are you comfortable with your partner, your friends with the opposite sex? Will you try the long distance thing and stick with it, if it works, but do not try to force the relationship appears to be? Discuss these things with your partner and be honest about your expectations. This way, everything is on the outside, and we suspect that you have to reduce the other person. In addition, you never questioned if you cross a border.
2. Coordinate your appointment. Be realistic about the time commitment you can give each other. If it works for both of your schedules, plan to speak at some point during the night.However, the stress on your head if you want, not with distant friends and partners to understand your need for office and branch out in the end, or is jealous of the time you spend with other people. No matter what happens, try to stay in touch daily by phone, email, AIM, or by other means. Download Skype, Net2Phone or free phone. Its free online chat, if you download both programs like these ... no matter where you are. Also, consider a web cam for a personal connection.
3. Make plans in advance to see personally. If you set firm dates to see each other and stick to it, it makes the wait less difficult, because we travel planning time with your partner and look forward to spend on them. If you can see some at certain times of the other, it reduces the problems that can arise from a person feel like they will be pressure on others to look at it and feeling more like that are too busy and push the relationship because of the pressure.
4. You agree to participate in activities together long distance. To play games online against each other or watch a TV at the same time. Also, try "virtual dates" Send your partner an e-mail describing a situation (eg a beach) and time (dusk). Ask them to describe what kind of date you have in this context, what you say, wear, eat, what activities take you, etc. Make small things together as it helps you, and remember me once again of fun day to day that you used.
5. Do not make problems larger than they actually are. In long distance relationships, communication can be very difficult. Avoid the controversy over the little problems ... with communication barriers that can do the little things in big fights. Agree to disagree, though, as you are not making progress looks like. In this relationship, you are bound to feelings of uncertainty and doubt. Do not make drastic changes if you are absolutely sure that things do not work. Threatening to break every time you two would go through a difficult phase has not helped the situation, especially if you do not seriously say that it ends. They communicate openly about the problems with the remote to do with the situation, but do so in a way that is constructive and problem solving.
6. Surprise them. Send flowers or chocolates in the office of your partner. For a special treat, Fed-Extheir return on their favorite restaurant food at home. Send cards for no reason, and e-mails just to let them know what you think of them.
7. Share details of your life. Talk about things that happen in your day. Stay up to your partner what you up at work and socially. Go ask your partner for advice. If you are lucky enough to spend more time with the other had, we talked about these things, right? It will contribute to a sense of normalcy and a sense of trust between you.
8. Focus on the future. A long distance relationship does not always work. Make plans to live in the same city as quickly as possible. Uncertainty about the future to add tension and doubt.
9. Never assume the worst. If your partner is a call delayed a day or listen to the voice of someone else in the background, you ask what is going on before the flight in a fit of rage and threw the wrong. If you do not get their hands on them, call a friend, and instead direct you. No matter what, do not insist on this.
10. Meeting friends of your partner and ask your partner you meet your friends. It will help you get more confidence in the relationship, if you are mutual friends, who can reassure you if you develop with doubts. Although you do not want someone else to solve all your problems in turn can be beneficial in all cases, someone else has to calm your fears.
1. Be honest about what you expect of them. You want the freedom to date other people? Are you comfortable with your partner, your friends with the opposite sex? Will you try the long distance thing and stick with it, if it works, but do not try to force the relationship appears to be? Discuss these things with your partner and be honest about your expectations. This way, everything is on the outside, and we suspect that you have to reduce the other person. In addition, you never questioned if you cross a border.
2. Coordinate your appointment. Be realistic about the time commitment you can give each other. If it works for both of your schedules, plan to speak at some point during the night.However, the stress on your head if you want, not with distant friends and partners to understand your need for office and branch out in the end, or is jealous of the time you spend with other people. No matter what happens, try to stay in touch daily by phone, email, AIM, or by other means. Download Skype, Net2Phone or free phone. Its free online chat, if you download both programs like these ... no matter where you are. Also, consider a web cam for a personal connection.
3. Make plans in advance to see personally. If you set firm dates to see each other and stick to it, it makes the wait less difficult, because we travel planning time with your partner and look forward to spend on them. If you can see some at certain times of the other, it reduces the problems that can arise from a person feel like they will be pressure on others to look at it and feeling more like that are too busy and push the relationship because of the pressure.
4. You agree to participate in activities together long distance. To play games online against each other or watch a TV at the same time. Also, try "virtual dates" Send your partner an e-mail describing a situation (eg a beach) and time (dusk). Ask them to describe what kind of date you have in this context, what you say, wear, eat, what activities take you, etc. Make small things together as it helps you, and remember me once again of fun day to day that you used.
5. Do not make problems larger than they actually are. In long distance relationships, communication can be very difficult. Avoid the controversy over the little problems ... with communication barriers that can do the little things in big fights. Agree to disagree, though, as you are not making progress looks like. In this relationship, you are bound to feelings of uncertainty and doubt. Do not make drastic changes if you are absolutely sure that things do not work. Threatening to break every time you two would go through a difficult phase has not helped the situation, especially if you do not seriously say that it ends. They communicate openly about the problems with the remote to do with the situation, but do so in a way that is constructive and problem solving.
6. Surprise them. Send flowers or chocolates in the office of your partner. For a special treat, Fed-Extheir return on their favorite restaurant food at home. Send cards for no reason, and e-mails just to let them know what you think of them.
7. Share details of your life. Talk about things that happen in your day. Stay up to your partner what you up at work and socially. Go ask your partner for advice. If you are lucky enough to spend more time with the other had, we talked about these things, right? It will contribute to a sense of normalcy and a sense of trust between you.
8. Focus on the future. A long distance relationship does not always work. Make plans to live in the same city as quickly as possible. Uncertainty about the future to add tension and doubt.
9. Never assume the worst. If your partner is a call delayed a day or listen to the voice of someone else in the background, you ask what is going on before the flight in a fit of rage and threw the wrong. If you do not get their hands on them, call a friend, and instead direct you. No matter what, do not insist on this.
10. Meeting friends of your partner and ask your partner you meet your friends. It will help you get more confidence in the relationship, if you are mutual friends, who can reassure you if you develop with doubts. Although you do not want someone else to solve all your problems in turn can be beneficial in all cases, someone else has to calm your fears.
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