Character, from the Greek word "χαρακτήρα," was a term originally used of a printed character on a coin. Today is the sum of all the qualities like integrity, courage, bravery, honesty and loyalty in a known person. Character is perhaps the most important being can have on a person, because a person is defined. In order to strengthen a person's character is a productive person in our own sphere of influence of the shape.Here are some tips on how to build your own character, or form your moral discipline.
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- 1What strength of character. Strength in the mark consists of the qualities that you control your instincts andpassions practice to master, and myriadtemptations that is constantly struggling, you can not resist. In addition, the strength of character andprejudices absence of prejudice of the mind, and exercise tolerance, love and respect for others.
- 2Understand why the strength of character is important to protect yourself and above all others:
- Strength of character allows you to make your free will, and you can deal with setbacks. It helps you achieve your goals at the end.
- It allows you to find the causes of misfortune, rather than just complain, as many are inclined to do.
- It gives you courage, you admit your mistakes, neglect and weaknesses.
- It gives you the strength to keep a foot when the tide turns against you, and climb higher in the face of obstacles.
- 3The most important way to strengthen your character is to empathize with others, especially the weak souls and love for others as yourself. This may be associated with certain costs, so that your own motives, so that you investigate empathizeungrudgingly. Empathy differs from sympathy in the denotation, such as empathy requires that your project and get involved if necessary (to walk and help clear the way for another person), [1], while the implies an emotionally sympathetic, but the passive response, such as hearing, seeing and imitating not continue.
- 4Seek the truth. Reason for the raw emotion. The person with strong character will examine all the facts on the head, and not by the emotions of the heart may be biased. Arrange all the questions on reason alone, and avoid entanglement in the chaos of your feelings.]
- 5Be neither a pessimistic nor optimistic, but aleader. A pessimist complains about the wind, the optimist is expected to improve the unfavorable wind conditions, but the leader takes steps to trim the sails and make sure they are ready to be cultivated at all times.
- 6Protect yourself from irrational impulses. Aristotle and Thomas Aquinas believed that there are seven human passions: love and hate, desire and fear, joy and sadness and anger. So good in itself, these passions can bypass our intellect, and we like to eat the wrong things to a lot of food for fear of things are irrational or exceeded in sadness or anger. The answer is always looking to jump before you and to practice good habits to be found by the enslavement of their own passions free. Inappropriate, sensual desires are the characteristics of a weak character, ability, satisfaction and practice self-control delay is a sign of strength
- 7Be content with your lot. Evaluate your own values and what you have. The idea that the grass is greener on the other is a recipe for misery for life, remember that it is actually projecting your assumptions about how others live. It is better to live as you focus.
- 8Be brave enough to take calculated risks. If you avoid the fight, you must give the victory and the consequent joy. Nor cowardly, nor distant, yet avoid their legal obligations, but also brave, so your part, contribute to human progress.
- 9Reject external stimuli to meet you there solution are fixed. Each person has their interests foremost in mind, whether consciously or unconsciously. Or to impose your will on others, nor allow others to impose their will on you. Stay aware and accept that different people have different proposals, and you can not please everyone. Finding the right way, and walk therein, neither right nor left. Government itself, and never leave the track.
- 10Learn to do good and avoid evil. Seek peace and pursue it seriously. Aim for no personal goals which appear to meet the needs of others with contempt, but is intended to benefit worthy and noble reasons for society as a whole. If you are looking for personal gain, you will run into conflicts with others, and at the end, they will inevitably fail. If you are looking for the mutual benefit of all will, and find satisfaction and personal level as well.
- 11Learn to control your emotions. Do not let anything but common sense dictate your decisions in the conduct of everyday life. It can often result in difficult and sometimes impossible not to feel deep in your soul, but you can learn to suppress their statements, and to overcome them by relying on common sense and moderation.
- 12Be neither miserly nor lost, but looking at the ground themiddle.The ability to locate the center is a sign of strong character to stand in a position to the extreme.
- 13Be calm in all things. Calmness is a state of peace and quiet for you to concentrate and assemble divergent thinking and helps meditate with profit. Contemplation leads to ideas and ideas lead to opportunities and possibilities lead to success.Calmness is a sine qua non of a strong character. Without peace there can be no strength of character. Without peace, passion, can easily overheat, turning into an intense desire to disrupt and common sense. Silence is not the enemy of feelings, but his slider and allows their proper expression.
- 14Focus on the positive aspects of life-saving and time for the negatives. A doctor told a young woman complains of all sorts of problems for which they demanded from him a cure, "Do not think of them: it is the most powerful of all healing." The physical and mental pain can thanks to the effort of will, spirit guide in the opposite channels are relieved and strengthened through the apartment for them.
- 15Opposed to fatalism. Each individual is responsible for its own development and wealth. To fatalism is to believe that fate is somehow buildings, to try all the initiatives of your life and improve themselves discouraged. Fate is blind and deaf, he will not hear or see us. Instead, remember that disasters are the setting and changing fortunes of the best ways to strengthen your character and improve your lot in life. Train your happiness, not for someone else or something else to do for you to wait because it will never happen if you persevere.
- 16Please be patient. A person with a strong character does not stop when faced with obstacles, but endure to the end and overcome all obstacles. Learn to delay gratification in life, learn to wait and find out that time is your friend. It allows to know which battles are worth, and when things break, sometimes letting go is more important than clinging to a sinking ship.
- 17Conquer all fears. Shyness is a stumbling block to success.Entertain no superstition on superficial observation, but accept the facts on the mainland. Do not build your base on the sand, prefer instead to rely on a rock. If you overcome fear, you have strength of character tothink have to solve, and act victorious.
- 18Like a gardener must remove all the weeds around the plants grow, you also need to clear your mind of all thoughts that undermine your strength low like a weed. Protect yourself from excessive emotions and write their exact meaning. If you are busy with some overwhelming emotions, to be filled immediately to something else for 15 minutes to an hour. Many great warriors lost their lives when responding to insults to research, go ahead and fight against their taunts, without adequate preparation, can only refer to a hot head. Learning to overcome weakness in practice, remember that anger is a vice common to all the weak character.
- 19Freshness practice caution, prudence and discretion in business.Keep your thoughts with logic, and run your business accordingly.
- 20Always be consistent in all things and all aspects of life from the truth. If you're dishonest, you are dishonest with themselves, and this is an attack on your own character.
- 21Finally, stand where you are, and do your best whatever you do.Work hard, and idleness be avoided like the plague. Learn the same reason, to rejuvenate the quality of entertainment for its ability to inspire you and you know your good works, to reassess.
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